As we’ve seen recently, more and more people are looking for dates with escorts because they offer such a friendly and pleasant experience—often feeling just like a real “girlfriend experience” (GFE). The possibilities are endless since you can choose who you meet, where, when, and for how long. Of course, not everyone is strictly looking for a sexual encounter, which is why choosing the right escort for your outing is so important.

Having a date with an escort can be a wonderful experience, but there are a few tips to keep in mind before you head out. In the following article, we’ll break them down one by one so you have the best advice before making your move. Please note that the term ‘escorts’ in this article refers not only to cisgender female escorts but also to Shemale Escorts or Trans Escorts.

First Things First

Our number one piece of advice is: don’t feel intimidated about going on a date with an independent escort. There’s no point in feeling tense or worried. Your companion has likely seen it all before and will do everything possible to help you relax. If you’re looking to have a great time with escorts, you’re in the perfect position to do so. If it’s your first time, don’t panic—they will help you find your rhythm.

Location is Everything

Generally, escorts enjoy visiting new and unique places. This doesn’t mean you have to spend a fortune on the most luxurious spots in the city, but it does mean stepping out of your comfort zone.

Many clients limit themselves to “5-fork” (fine dining) restaurants, but that isn’t always necessary. You can grab a bite at places neither of you usually visit. You could start with a play, a movie, or a stroll in the park, followed by a nice meal—and who knows, maybe end the night at a beautiful hotel.

Comfortable Conversations

Our ancestors used to say it’s best not to talk about religion or politics over a meal. While no one is stopping you from discussing these topics with independent escorts, it’s not recommended for a first meeting. Even if she likes those topics, let her be the one to bring them up.

The best way to break the ice is to keep the conversation light: talk about what you both like to do, entertainment, sports, or hobbies.

Dress Code

Your outfit should be planned for the occasion, depending on what you choose to do and where you go. You don’t necessarily need a suit and tie. As we mentioned, the most important thing is to be relaxed, so wear something that makes you feel that way.

Smelling Good Goes a Long Way

Common sense tells us we shouldn’t drive people away with body odor. It seems obvious, but freshening up before an escort date will make a great impression—both out of respect for her and for yourself. Wear a nice cologne that makes you feel confident. She’ll definitely appreciate it. Many women love masculine fragrances, so smelling good can definitely lead to more pleasure later on. Put this on your “must-have” list.

Showing Confidence

This is the best dating advice found anywhere: the confidence you project through your words, body language, decisions, and—above all—how you treat your companion. Most escorts are usually simple, beautiful, and elegant women. Show that you are a reliable person and don’t be afraid to express your nerves; she’ll be ready to listen.

This point is non-negotiable: when an escort sets a boundary, you must respect it immediately. She is the one who decides how far things go. Do not force situations or create discomfort, or you’ll risk ruining the entire night. Never make the other person feel unsafe or uncomfortable.

No Means No

Escorts often choose meeting spots where they feel safe. Don’t suggest anywhere “sketchy.” If you’re unsure, ask a friend with more experience for advice. The goal is for both of you to have a comfortable, perhaps romantic, and pleasurable evening.

Now, what are you waiting for?